‘My blood cancer was dismissed as a pulled muscle’

A former footballer shared that his diagnosis of blood cancer left him in “complete shock,” initially dismissing the pain as a pulled muscle.

Mel Tottoh discovered he had myeloma following months of rib and back discomfort.

The father-of-three from Freckleton, Lancashire, visited his GP after experiencing “searing pain” during a golf swing in 2021 that felt like a broken rib.

“When I received my diagnosis, I had significant damage in my ribs, thighs, spine, and skull,” said the 68-year-old, who played for Preston North End in the 1980s.

He mentioned experiencing discomfort in his ribs and back for over a year and a half before being diagnosed, attributing it to extensive golfing.

As the pain intensified in mid-2020, he consulted his GP, who suggested it was a muscular issue and that the discomfort would resolve itself.

“Over months, it became quite debilitating,” he reflected.

“Eventually, it started to substantially affect my daily life.”

Following some blood tests, he was diagnosed with myeloma in August 2021.

“This diagnosis was a complete shock to me,” he expressed.

“My father passed away from cancer, and within the last 12 years, I’ve lost two brothers to the same disease. I thought this was the end for me.”

Fortunately, the care team at Blackpool Victoria Hospital “were incredible,” he noted.

Mr. Tottoh underwent radiotherapy to address the damage to his bones.

Subsequently, he received chemotherapy, followed by a stem cell transplant, and has remained in remission since November 2022.

Throughout his journey, the support of family and friends has proved invaluable.

“It takes a small army to help you through this experience,” Mr. Tottoh stated, as he is currently on maintenance treatment to help keep his cancer under control.

“The key now is to have people by your side—those who care and uplift you during tough times.

“My family and closest friends have been that support.”

Nearly five years post-diagnosis, Mr. Tottoh is determined to create lasting memories with his family and his nine-year-old grandson, Theo.

“My outlook is extremely positive,” he shared.

“I aim to see my grandson graduate and marry if that’s his desire, and I hope to witness my children achieve their aspirations.

“Currently, I’m in a wonderful place and on a path to living with myeloma for many years to come.”

He encouraged anyone experiencing concerning symptoms to consult a doctor.

“No one understands your body better than you, so take ownership of your health,” he advised.

• Myeloma is an incurable blood cancer affecting the bone marrow.
• Though it’s the third most prevalent blood cancer, symptoms are often mistaken for aging or minor issues, making it hard to diagnose.
• Although myeloma is deemed incurable, most cases are treatable.
• Treatment may lead to periods of remission, but the cancer will eventually return.

Source: Myeloma UK